Showing posts with label Women in Nepal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Women in Nepal. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Happy Teej 2009!


Teej is an important Hindu ritual observed by Hindu women. Teej in Nepal is observed on the third day after the new moon in the Hindu month of Bhadra or Bhadrapada. It is dedicated to Goddess Parvathi and Lord Shiva and is observed for three consecutive days. This Teej is widely known as Hartalika Teej in India. In 2009, the Teej festival in Nepal begins on August 23. The last day of Teej is observed as Rishi Panchami.

A fast is observed on the Teej day by married and unmarried women. There is a belief that those unmarried women who observe fast on this day will get good husbands. Married women undertake fasting for a happy and prosperous married life. The importance of this fast is mentioned in several Puranas and it is also said that Hindu women observe Teej to commemorate the intense austerity observed by Goddess Parvati to get Lord Shiva as husband.

In Nepal, Teej is also the period when married women visit their parents. The night before Teej day is known as Dar khane Din and women prepare different varieties of food and have a lavish dinner. On Teej day, many women go without food the whole day.

The day after Teej is Ganesh Chaturthi and special prayers are held. Women also break the fast on this day. The next day is Rishi Panchami and special prayers are offered to the Sapta Rishis.

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Nepal's Government gets it Wrong...Again.

Widows in Nepal are treated like second class citizens. Upon their husband's death they are ostracized by their community and literally referred to as "husband eaters." In Nepal, there are thousands of young widows, who have no job opportunities or assistance from the government. To remarry a widow is considered taboo- many widows, some as young as 9 years old, stay single for the duration of their life and carry a social stigma they can never live down.

In the following press release from Women for Human Rights, a NGO in Kathmandu working for widows and single women, we see that the government has implemented a monetary incentive for men to marry widows. If a man marrys a widow he will recieve over $700 from the government, a huge sum of money in Nepal. This is not a step forward and obviously a policy thrown together with no thought for a longterm solution to the appalling status of widows in the country. It is blatantly offensive and dehumanizing to widows in Nepal.

This is an issue Global Daughter has been very involved in from the beginning. We work with many artisans who are widows. We engage them in a positive way and allow them the opportunity for stable and sustainable employment so they can continue to provide for their families and get out from under the thumb of their in-laws. This builds confidence and serves as an example to communities that widows are contributing members of society with the same desires and needs as anyone else.

The way forward is empowering women, not incentivizing men.

Dear All,

In the Budget speech of the Government of Nepal dated Ashad 29 2066 B.S., under the social security schemes, it has been mentioned that a person who gets married to a widow will be given a reward of NRs. 50,000 ($700+) as motivation. Women for Human Rights, single women group (WHR) would like to say that this policy of Government of Nepal has further humiliated and insulted single women of Nepal. This decision will further bring about unwanted social impacts and bad consequences in society. It seems that Government has failed to take into consideration the long term impact of the monetary incentive. Because of this, WHR strongly condemns this decision of government and urge the government to immediately nullify the monetary incentive mentioned for remarriage of single women and rather should focus on removing age bar while getting monthly allowances, reservation in health and education facilities, tax exemption while registering property in the name of single women, provision of ration card and job opportunities.

Monday, June 15, 2009

Travel Postcard

Check out the Global Daughter picture in the Seattle Times!

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/photogalleries/travel2008583734/

This photo was taken in March 2009 on a trek in the Helumbu Region of Nepal. After 8 days of trekking, I met up with a group of cancer doctors from the sole cancer hospital in Chitwan, Nepal. They were in the village of Kakani administering pap smears, breast examinations and eye check-ups for women in surrounding villages. Women came from miles around on foot to experience this type of women-specific care for the first time.

The old woman in the photo was seated in that same place for hours. She did not get up, even for the free tea, and she did not talk to anyone. The younger girl administering the eye examination, is a nurse pracitioner from the hospital who volunteered her time to come out for the 2-day event.

You can't see in the picture, but a woman from behind had one eye covered to read the letters posted. The women were confused about the exam and couldn't understand the concept of checking vision. It was incredible to witness. After talking at length with the doctors, we ended up dining with them and listening to fascinating medical stories from their work in Nepal.

You can read more about the health camp in our previous post.

Monday, June 1, 2009

Mob Strips Woman in Street

Let me preface this news story by saying that this was reported with little to no coverage. The context of this horrendous act are not clear at this time. However, the images tell a story of human rights abuse and sexual violence and that is why it appears on our blog.

The reason for this crime DOES NOT matter. No one should be persecuted by the public, in public under any circumstance. The fact that this mob of men man-handled this women in the busiest part of the city with no police interaction shows you just how poorly women are treated and ignored by the state.

There is a small child watching the mob strip this woman. The look in his eyes is eerie. His stone cold face is the face of the future. That is the saddest part of the story. He sees this type of violence as normal, acceptable and fun (as the smiling men in the background look on). He will grow up and perpetuate the cycle of discrimination that has kept women in Nepal from achieving any remnants of equality. This is heart-breaking.

I was just there, in the place were this woman was assaulted. I rode my bike past it everyday and now to see this, from thousands of miles away I am more horrified than ever. Justice in Nepal does not exist. Lawlessness prevails and the mob rules all.

Mob parades woman naked in Kathmandu
30 May 2009, 0019 hrs IST, TNN
Times of India

KATHMANDU: Watched by fearful children and passersby, a mob of nearly 50 young men beat up a woman and paraded her naked in the heart of capital city Kathmandu with no one daring to protest even as Nepal’s political parties said they were writing a new constitution that would empower women and other disadvantaged people.

The unidentified woman, who looked to be in her 30s, was stripped of her red printed salwar-kameez and white dupatta. Then the crowd tore off her undergarments and rained abuse and blows with lathis.

The shocking incident occurred in the Ratna Park area of Kathmandu, one of the busiest spots in the capital where new Prime Minister Madhav Kumar Nepal on Friday laid down the foundation of a martyrs’ memorial.

The area, teeming with public transport and shops, is also close to a main police station. Though the cornered woman repeatedly cried out in fear, asking people to save her, nobody dared to intervene.

The woman could have been a sex worker, who abound the area, or mistaken as one. Though it happened on May 20, it came to public notice only this week with a passerby taking photographs of the scene and sending them to a Nepali blog site, Mysansar.com The blog is now appealing for justice, saying the attack is all the more shocking as it happened in the heart of the capital.






Monday, May 11, 2009

The Badi Women Experience

The women of the badi community in Nepal are some of the most discriminated in the country. Their fate as bonded sex labourers is cruel and their future in the village is bleak. They are the exact women Global Daughter aims to connect with to create employment or skills training for them and their daughters. The following is an informative article on the Badi experience.

Caste System Binds Nepalese Prostitutes

By AMY WALDMAN
New York Times

MUDA, Nepal-- With its simple mud homes, low roofs and string cots, this tiny settlement near the Indian border looks like any other in this part of western Nepal. Only the women suggest something different, garishly painted as they are even in the early morning hours.

They loiter on a slope or around the tea stall, waiting for men, who come, banter, negotiate, then slyly walk one of the women to one of the village houses. The women's children play nearby and watch.

Caste has become destiny for many communities, defining their profession through generations. But few people have inherited so vexed a destiny as the Badis of Nepal. Their profession is prostitution, passed down from one generation to the next.

While many Badi women have left the sex trade, others keep falling into it, driven by hunger, a lack of alternatives and the stigma of being a Badi.

The Badis, who number tens of thousands across western Nepal, are one of 36 castes who make up Nepal's untouchables, said Suk Lal Nepali, a Badi who runs Social Awareness for Education, or SAFE, a nonprofit organization that works with the Badis.

But, he added, "we are untouchable among the untouchables."

Sunni Nepali, now 22, began working as a prostitute four or five years ago. Her body supports 11 relatives, including her parents and two younger brothers. Each encounter she has up to five a day earns her anywhere from 70 cents to $2.15. She loathes the work, she said, but sees no choice. She has no education.

Besides, she asked: "Who's going to marry me? I'm already involved in this."

The Badis did not start out as prostitutes when they migrated to Nepal from India some three centuries ago. They made drums and musical instruments, fished and danced and sang. They would go to the homes of landlords, or zamindars, to entertain at social ceremonies, in return for food.

In time, the zamindars claimed some of the girls as concubines. They would use them, then abandon them when they had children, said Ramesh Nepali, a Badi. Many Badis have taken the surname Nepali to avoid the disgrace of being a Badi.

In this patriarchal society, fatherless children have few rights. It can be difficult to register their births, and thus get them citizenship, school admission, even the right to vote.

Already nonentities in society's eyes, daughters dutifully followed their mothers into prostitution, often encouraged by parents no longer willing or able to work themselves. Badi men lived off the women's work.

Social welfare organizations have tried to coax the women into other jobs with some success, said Suk Lal Nepali, although he noted that even his own sister slipped into prostitution three years ago. He says only 150 women remain in prostitution, down from 587 a decade ago.

Still, the whole population remains stigmatized.

About half of the 50 families that lived in this settlement have migrated to India in search of work as maids or guards, leaving perhaps 250 Badis in Muda. In part, that is a result of pressure from Maoists waging an insurgency against Nepal's constitutional monarchy. They are also against prostitution and have ordered the Badis to stop their work. There is pressure, too, from the government, carried out by the army and the police.

"We can no longer be prostitutes," said Kokali Nepali, 30, a mother of four. "Before, it was accepted, it was open. Now there is pressure from all sides society and government. We cannot do it openly."

In this part of Nepal, however, there is little other work to be found. Even many of the women who have abandoned the sex trade, like Kokali Nepali, live off it, working as educators for SAFE and other groups.

All of the women insist they practice protected sex, and say they have educated many of their customers to do the same. Sunni Nepali even lamented that because she used condoms so reliably, it would be difficult for her to conceive a child to raise on her own, which she wanted.

There have been about 236 total H.I.V. cases identified in the middle and western parts of Nepal, said Dr. G. Raj Shakya, the president of the Nepal S.T.D. and AIDS Research Center in Nepalgunj.

He said he had not identified H.I.V. cases among Badis, but that he was almost sure there were some. Many of the women refused to be tested, he said, for fear that a positive result would further stigmatize them and their community.

The women say the danger is from those who migrate to India, and then come back.

Using the AIDS threat as leverage, the Badis have been seeking government help to move into other lines of work, but without success.

"We are in a position to leave prostitution if the government is ready to announce we are not prostitutes and provide alternatives," Suk Lal Nepali said.

His organization has opened hostels for Badi girls, hoping that a different environment will keep them from following their mothers into the sex trade.

But some girls remain. Kokali Nepali's 7-year-old daughter was around as the women did business. So was Gomati Nepali's 12-year-old, Rabina, who said she wanted to be a nurse.

Gomati Nepali got into prostitution at 15, when her parents were sick, the family poor. She works out of her mother's house.

"In an environment like this," Gomati said of Rabina, "I'm afraid she will go into this."

source: http://www.nytimes.com/2004/04/11/international/asia/11MUDA.html

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Update on Witchcraft Case...

This is a follow-up on the story reported in the Himalayan Times and on GD's blog about Kalli Kumari B.K who was accused of witchcraft and brutality assualted. The story seems to have got the attention of law enforcement, but in Nepal, that isn't saying much.


Kalli’s date with hollow promises

Kathmandu Post

RENU KSHETRY


KATHMANDU, April 29 - For Kalli Kumari B.K. life is hollow. The 45-year old says she finds it hard to come to terms with the trauma she went through on March 20. That day her husband could only look on helplessly as her neighbours overpowered them and forced her to eat human excreta accusing her of witchcraft.

Three days later, she was rescued from the village of Phyutar in Lalitpur.That incident, she says, has changed her life, but does not know how. For the moment, she just wants to go back home from Maiti Nepal, where she has been sheltering since March 23 with her daughter Shanti B.K., 17.


Her husband, Chetman B.K. has been living with his relatives at Chapagaon. “I am extremely worried about him,” she said of her 50-plus husband, who is blind in the left eye. “He came here to meet us twice, but it's a long time since we heard from him. We hope he is all right and gets to eat two meals a day.” Not just that, she is concerned about the 25 chicken she left with her neighbours or the buffalo bought by mortgaging an old pair of ear-rings to the local lender.


Little over a month has passed since that fateful day. Kalli Kumari has listened to many influential figures, including 'a fat, old man' -- Deputy Prime Minister Bam Dev Gautam -- and has been to the Legislature Parliament to brief them on what happened. She has heard bundles of assurances that those subjecting her to inhumane treatment would be brought to justice. So far, the words have sounded hollow.


But she has her mind set on the village-level all-party meeting slated for Wednesday, which is expected to ensure her a dignified return home. If every thing goes as planned, she gets to reunite with her family, but does not quite know how she is going to deal with the stigma of being labelled a witch.


“Is that going to go?” she asks. “My skin is black but my heart is not,” she chokes on her words. “Does being a poor, old Dalit with grey hair make me a witch?”


Most importantly, will her tormentors be punished, as she has been promised? She does not know. Member of National Women's Commission Dhan Kumari Sunar, however, assured the Post they would put the culprit behind bars and resettle Kalli and her family securely with respect and dignity.

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Women Artisans in Janakpur

Janakpur Arts and Crafts Center was the first artisan workshop we associated ourselves with over a year ago.This woman-owned and operated center produces original and distinctive designs and has been running for over 15 years. Janakpur is located in the southeast region of Nepal bordering India and is a world away from Kathmandu. The illiteracy rate is over 65% and education is still not looked at as a priority for many families in the area. Most of the women that work at the center have not been to school and some have tragic and painful stories of family abuse, personal loss, extreme poverty and caste discrimination.

The employment opportunity the center provides these women not only offers them a financial income, it also encourages their creativity and self confidence. By working at the center and gaining economic independence, they are role models for their daughters and success stories in their communities. The artisans work either at the center or in the comfort of their own homes (some of their husbands do not allow them to leave the house). Each artisan is specially-trained in a certain aspect of production, for example, master fabric cutter, detail painter, tailor, designers, etc.

On my current trip to the Center, I was able to meet up with women who we have worked with from the beginning. It was great to hear their stories and find that most of them are healthy. Ranju, the master seamstress who makes our cushion covers, has recovered fully from an emergency hysterectomy. That is good news. And since we were there last, they have added 5 women on staff. It is great to go into the workshop and be remembered and feel natural amongst the women artisans. We am proud to be working with them, for them and creating a connection between them and YOU!






















































Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Janakpur in Pictures

Janakpur is Global Daughter's home. We started working in this village over a year ago and it is the last place I go before I return to the U.S. This place is full of life, color, history, culture and of course, beautiful women. I visited the Janakpur Arts and Crafts Center, but after thousands of pictures and several days, I thought to share pictures from Janakpur separately. Tourists rarely visit this place (12- hour bus ride from Kathmandu) but I think it is the gem of the country. We all connect to different places differently. The people here are family..I actually have people recognize me from our trip there a year ago! (I am sure the white hair has nothing to do with it!) When I am there, at the workshop or walking down the street with the ox carts and women dressed in the most intense and magical colors, I feel like I got the memo on life.



































Sunday, March 29, 2009

Medieval.

This is the most disturbing report I have ever read in the newspaper. It got a small box in the national section of the Himalayan Times- it should have come out in the Medieval Times.

Himalayan Times
Kathmandu, March 24
Tika R. Pradhan

A gang of people led by a school headmistress forcibly made a woman eat her own excreta in Lalitpur, accusing her of practicing witchcraft. The headmistress of Gadi Bhanjyang Primary School, Bimala Lama, forced Kalli Kumari BK, 48, to confess that she killed locals in the area with her black magic and forced her to eat her own feces.

Fortunately, a police head constable came to know about the incident and informed the Federation of Nepali Journalists about it. He has provided shelter to three members of BK's family despite death threats from both his and her family. Talking to the Himalayan Times over telephone, BK said that around 50 women and men tried to amputate her breast with blades and knifes on Friday.

"They forced me to eat my own excreta in public," she said, adding that they also forced her to "confess" that she was behind the deaths of all the people in the village.

BK yelled for help via telephone to this scribe, saying that members of the society had threatened to cut her into pieces. "How long will you find shelter? We are going to see for how long the police will protect you," her attackers said.

"On my request, four policemen had reached the site today but to no avail," Ghimire said, who is currently serving at the Metropolitan Police Commissioners Office, Rani Pokhari.

On the initiation of Jagaran Media Centre, representatives of human rights organizations, National Dalit Commission, National Women's Commission and the media are going to visit the site Wednesday.

This is the first reported incident taking place in the Kathmandu Valley involving and educated woman, Lama, who tortured a woman on the charges of witchcraft.

All I can say is, I would like to meet the woman who instigated this brutality and take her to task. It makes my blood boil as a woman, an activist and as a human being. She is the principal at a school for Nepal's youth. What does that say?

This happened in the heart of the city, not the village. That is the most appalling part about it. Women's rights in this country are fragile- everywhere.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Cancer Society Nepal- Women's Health Camp


Eye Exams.


Waiting to get a pap smear.




Nothing says Cancer Society health camp like taking a smoke break!



This woman has advanced-stage cataract.


15 of the 75 women tested have mature stage cataract and will soon go blind. This woman's cataract was clearly seen with an old flashlight. I personally looked at both her eyes and what I saw was horrifing. She needs surgery immediately, but can not afford it, of course. A woman in the village- what to do? The main cause of high instances of cataract is smoke fires inside the home. The woman are at the fire cooking and cleaning most of the day.



Lung check-ups for the first time.


Incredible to witness.


Pap smear awareness poster.


Waiting...


Tamang and Llama woman after their tests. Results will be processed and the team will return to plan treatments and arrange care for the women.



Through the generations....


In a two-day health camp sponsored by the national organization, Cancer Society Nepal, eye doctors, gynecologists and cancer specialists visited the surrounding villages of Kakani, Helumbu Region. Women from over 12 villages walked to the Kakani secondary school to get free check-ups and medicine. Conducting eye exams, pap smears, breast examinations, and lung exams, doctors from the only cancer hospital in Chitwan, Nepal, came to the village to create health awareness and diagnose cataract, lung disease and cervical and breast cancer.


This was the first time in this region that pap smears (vaginal examinations) were administered. Women lined up to fill a questionnaire about their health history and their current health concerns. In a small grade 5 classroom, made of stone with a dirt floor, a gynecologist gave each woman a pap smear test and breast examination. The ages of the women ranged from 18-85. None had ever had an exam and most were nervous to step into the room.

It is, of course, suggested that a woman in America get her first cervical examination at the age of 18 or after her first sexual experience. Cervical cancer is the number one diagnosed cancer in the country, with lung cancer and breast cancer second and third, respectively. The chances of getting cervical cancer are very high in the villages due to factors such as, early-age sexual experiences (tied in with early childhood marriage) lack of cleanliness, early-age childbirth, high child/woman rates, and STDs (tied to the lack of condom use). Women cancer patients far exceed men in the country and like all other health care here, cancer treatments are not accessible and very expensive.


We spent the day at the health camp interacting with the women and doctors. Most all of them were illiterate and while answering questions before the tests, many did not even know their names or ages. It was incredible. In the village, age is not important and older women might not know when they were born or how old they were during their first sexual experience or pregnancy. It was an eye-opening experience. As women in America, we are very fortunate to have the facilities and means to stay healthy. Let's remember that....